gear with +healing, intellect, and mp/5. healing shields or 1handers. i don't like staves. spirit is useless stat to me as well (no regen during combat).
enhancement (str/attackpower/+hit/+crit) or elemental pieces (spell power/crit) if others don't want them
i am collecting a set of Desolation Battlegear (melee shared shaman/hunter blue set)
I'm a grad student, if i'm not in class or doing research I can play. Evenings are fine.